Why does he have to be so perfect NOW!?

I have had a very tumultuous relationship with my boyfriend of 9 years. It was never a huge reason why we would fight (no cheating, jealousy, etc.). He would just not come to an important event. which pissed me off to the utmost degree. I broke it off with him a year and a half ago for a year. I thought I would never go back, but I knew he would always hold my heart. Anyways, I made plans to move to Florida to live with my cousin because it's much more beautiful there than where I currently live and there are more job possibilities, opportunities to meet new people, etc. I ended up getting back together with my boyfriend about seven months ago. It has been pure bliss. He makes promises and keeps them. I can spend every day with him and we aren't annoyed with one another. He makes me so happy and I know I make him so happy as well. He has been spending more time with my friends and they are actually telling me they like him and they're happy we're happy together. And it's like, come on... really? Why does everything have to be perfect now when I've already made promises to move? He won't come. He dislikes Florida and his family is here and his job. He said maybe in a year, but he doesn't know for sure. I was planning to move in another month.. What do I do?????