My fiance's parents are making her choose between me and her?

Honestly, if you both truly love each other you should get married no matter what. If you apologized and have bettered yourself for her and yourself you are worth it. She as well as others should see that people can change and that it isn't always just the person in some wrong who deserves all of the blame. I have no clearance on what your families beliefs are or hers so I can't give a definite answer. You should marry anyways and if your fiance isn't willing to marry without her parents permission you should move on. If she loves you, she will see that giving an ultimatum on marriage isn't love. You don't make a person choose between something unless it is truly a right reason to. Even than, they should explain their reasoning minus the insults and only the truth of the actions that have occurred. You shouldn't have to wait for her to change her mind when you know her parents won't change theirs. It seems to be a matter of control and they know their daughters weakness.Than again, it just might be right in their mind. All people are stubborn in opinions and reasoning. Adding insult, just adds to not deterring from their stance.